Steven Tyler Interview

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I just read an interview with Steven Tyler in the February issue of  O magazine.  I’ve become a fan of Tyler’s during his two years on American Idol.  I knew the music of Aerosmith but I didn’t spend much time knowing the band so Steven Tyler is someone I am not well acquainted with.  This interview gave me some history of him but more than that it affirmed my attraction to Tyler’s personality.  I like how he operates on American Idol.  He’s honest with these kids but kind.  I really like that about his character.  

I seldom finish full articles in magazines.  I guess I get bored but Steven Tyler kept me interested.  He spoke very openly about his past and his future. I was moved by his honesty.  During the interview Oprah asks about Tyler’s role in American Idol.

Oprah: …Sometimes when people are really bad – so bad that those of us at home think, “God, is this a plant?” – are you thinking, “What am I going to say?”

Tyler:   Yeah . . . because believe me, some of them come in and I go, “You don’t really think you can sing, do you?” And they’ll look at me and go, “What? My grandfather told me I could sing.  Mom told me I can sing. Are you saying I can’t sing?”  That’s when my heart breaks.”

Oprah:  Is it hard for you to hurt people’s feelings? 

Tyler:  Yeah.  I’ll tell you why. How many children have been sung to by their mothers when they’re 3 years old?  Even though their mother can’t sing.  They sing to them anyway – “You are the angel of my life.” I don’t want to tell someone they can’t sing and they go home and now they’ll never sing to their baby.

I wept at that.  The thought of someone not singing to their children makes me so sad.  It’s one of those memories I have of my mom singing me to sleep while rocking in a chair.  The memory of her voice still wraps me in warmth.  The thoughtfulness of Tyler to consider the tenderness of song that comes to children from their parents touches me.

There is another emotion connecting me to Tyler’s words.   It’s how I felt about the students I worked with.  I never wanted to make someone feel like they couldn’t do something. We all can do things at different levels and varied degrees of skill.  Not everyone can write a novel but maybe they can write a grant bringing in money to a non-profit.  Not everyone can manage a math equation, but they may be great at balancing their checkbook. Not everyone loves fishing but they may make a great fish taco.  Everything about education points to whether you’re good enough, all those tests, all those grades, every mark that tells a student they are not the best.  For those top kids it’s real nice but for all the others which is everyone else except #1, they are not as good according to the standards we have set.  Certainly on Idol we heard Simon Cowell tell people to take up another hobby.  They were not singers.  There were times I had to agree but Steven Tyler notes the importance of not crushing someone’s dreams with unnecessary hurtful comments.  I love this.  I have heard people say that they were told by teachers or other adults to find some other dream.  They just didn’t have what it takes.  Thankfully many who hear this ignore the advice and often go on to become one of the best at whatever it was they were discouraged from doing.

So no matter what someone has told you, do not quit at whatever it is you love, enjoy or dream about.  And without question continue bringing warmth and comfort by singing to those children in your life

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  1. Pam says:

    Missy, I love this. As a teacher, this is what you did for both of my boys in high school…you saved their spirit and their self-worth. They have both grown into wonderful, loving men. Thank you.

    • Missy Kizer says:

      You made me cry. Thank you so much for saying this. I loved your boys and they certainly have grown into terrific men. You should be very proud.

      • Pam says:

        I am very proud. I wish I could take full credit for them, but it took a lot of people to get them where they are. And they are doing the same for others now, impacting the lives of others in a positive way because people like you set the example for them. Life is a circle, thankfully.

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